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Fitness/Weight Loss Update

I suck. I havent gone to the gym in 2,3,4 weeks. At first, I was still working out at home, doing abs and simple exercises but now I stopped  doing even that. I feel flabby and yucky.

I dont know why I am so unmotivated to go workout. Is it because of the stupid rains? Is it because I have tons to do,like moving and packing(which technically I havent even started yet)? Is it because I am just being lazy and looking for silly reasons.Last year this time, it was the same. I didnt go work out because I didnt join a gym yet. Or my back hurt. Or I cannot find my shoes.A new day, a new reason.

Yesterday, NK took a picture of my outfit. When I uploaded that picture, I looked at my chubby face in disgust.You have to understand about my face. Its the first thing that gains weight. I always have chubby cheeks.ALWAYS! I then ran onto the weighing machine(I stopped my crazy daily/weekly weighing in because it drove nuts and I let my moods be controlled by the stupid machine). I have gained about 6 lbs of the 14 I lost when Nk left. FUCK! Some of it is because I hmm drank a bit too much. I can also place the blame on my mom’s murruku. or the pan of brownies I baked and fell flat into. Sigh.

Broom started a C25k challenge and I want to do it again. I had great success with early this year. I want to start it after the move and sign up for a run in April. Every NYE, my resolution will always include Lose weight.  Each year for the past 15 years? LOSE WEIGHT. This year, I will change it to GET FITTER. Run the 5k under 40 mins.

cringes..
cringes..

I didnt adjust the collar of the jacket and I am going to blame the hair on that

Love poem but not for me.

After his India trip,NK has been reading my blog, not the posts but rather the comments. He says the comments are more interesting. He clicked on Guddi’s blog and went to view her profile and apparently this line Jagjit Singh is like Zakhm Pe Marhamm inspired him to write a few lines.

Onus is on You
Ta zindagi dard hum ab sah hi lenge
Hamare zakhmon par Marham lagao, na lagao

Raah mei deedar tumara kar hi lenge
Apne ghar humko bulao, na buloa

Jaan pahchaan unse kar hi lenge
Hamare raqueeb se milao, na milao

Mithi yadon se apna daman bhar hi lenge
Hamare haal pe tum taras khao, na khao

Chaar din jee ke ab hum toh mar hi lenge
Nazara yeh haseen tum bhula pao, na pao

Now, you have to realize, my Hindi sucks. I cannot appreciate this poem at all. I thought deedar meant khatir dari. Yeah go ahead and laugh at me. Anyways, you can all ohh and aah over his poem and make him feel good.

PSS: Guddi, your No 1 on the list might just get fulfilled

Monday MoneySavers Bonus

I had about 3-4 bags of stuff to donate. One was all of Samar’s baby outfits. The onesies he has outgrown, the shoes that the kids have outgrown. Another was my clothes and some of the shoes I bought on impulse which hmm dont fit right.

Anyways I went to my favourite thrift store and donated the stuff. Since I had time, I decided to do a sweep of the store. Could have bought many many things but held myself back. Today was All purple Tags were 99 cents. The store’s pattern goes like this, Thurs to Sunday, a particular colored tag is 50% off, Monday the same colored  tag would be 99 cents. This particular thrift store is 2 levels. The upper level has furniture, golf clubs and skis. I seldom venture up there because I dont really shop for furniture. But today Samar ran up the stairs and I followed him. took a quick look round and saw this

mirror

 

a really heavy mirror. And then I saw the tag. PURPLE. Which means it would be 99 cents. I stood there thinking what to do. I am moving, do I really need a mirror. Stood and thought longer. A cup of coffee costs more than that. Whipped out my cell phone to call NK and told him, there is a mirror, width is about this 5 finger width and height is, it comes up to my boobs. And its 99 cents. Should I get it? He asked what I am going to do with it. I said I dont know but am going to get it. Its really pretty and its 99 cents.

I made the boys stand there(girls were in school) and dragged the thing down. Asked the first sales guy is it 99 cents and he said yes. I stored it behind the register and went to get the boys. Got in line to pay and then told another guy, thats my mirror and its 99 cents and he screams at the third guy is that true, Is it 99 cents?. The entire line(it was crowded) was staring at me and my mirror. I said, yup purple tag. Lady behind me, said wow you are lucky.

As an added bonus, you can see my awesome printed scarf.

Monday MoneySavers

Instead of showcasing my deals this week, I thought I let you guys know how I save money. 2 weeks ago, a friend and I went out for coffee. I told her I needed to pick up Samar’s nebulizer medication from the pharmacy first.

We get there and the cashier says its $80 for the months supply. I am like what> Its normally $20. He said my insurance rejected it and I have to pay the full price. I then whipped out some cards and told XYZ info has changed and that can he please call my insurance company to verify XYZ. He did call and after 20 mins, he said they gave him another code to use and its now back to $20. I look at my friend and said, If I had sent NK here to pick the medication up, he would paid that amount and then come home to bitch about what expensive medication it is and blah blah. And that friend agreed that her spouse would have done the same thing.

Then we headed next door to the Indian store. This friend bought 2 mangoes, some cilantro and something else which I cannot remember. She was charged $18. She looked at her receipt and realizedthat instead of charging her for  TWO mangoes, the guy charged her for 2 BOXES of mangoes. And she saved $13. How many times, do we just stuff our receipt in the bag and walk away without verifying what we have been charged? I know, I do it many many,times.

Finally, I made some $$ this weekend. Selling my craptreasures on my local MOMs club site. I sold our sandbox($40 and she hauled the sand away as well), a leanmeangrilling machine which I had picked up for $2 at a church rummage sale for $15, box of yarn for $40,the train table which I had bought in CO with all the bins and train and tracks for $100, I sold just the table for $40, I kept the bins and train and tracks. I sold 2 folding tables which I used for craft shows for $40. I sold 2 boxes of Lincoln Logs which the boys stopped playing with and I had bought cheap as well from garage sales for $25.
And later this afternoon, I have people coming to view a gazebo($40) I used for craft shows and another sofa table($10) which I am getting rid of. How much was the total?  Sure, it takes time to take pictures and list the ad, and then to send emails back and forth waiting for people to show up. Is it worth it? hell yeah. And the best thing, it isnt going to a landfill somewhere. This is why thrifting and using 2nd hand is so important. Its the green(cheap) way to do things

Sneak Peek

We signed the lease and no one can jinx it.

The living room

The living room

 

One of the rooms

One of the rooms

The door is the pantry, island in the center

That door you see, is the pantry, island in the center

The Spirit of The Season

The Tree

The Tree

Apparently, NK coming back equals to less blogging time. I don’t know how but it does. I have been busy,so busy my sisters asked why wasn’t I signed onto chat. So busy, I haven’t worked out in 3 weeks and counting. So busy that I haven’t taken a single daily outfit picture. (The weather has been cold,rainy and just gloomy)

The big news I hinted at,WE ARE MOVING! Well its just up(maybe its down) the street but but it has a washer/dryer and a dishwasher. The neatest thing about it, it is in an church. So we are guaranteed a spot in heaven. Never mind the fact we are Hindus.small technicality there.
Okay maybe that wasn’t the most exciting news to you guys! I already started throwing recycling things. I sold our sandbox, a huge box of yarn and a train table that the boys dont use as  much. I have 3 groups, sell, donate and throw.

I can start moving in boxes from the 26th and we have to leave our current apt by the 3rd.Blogging might be even more sporadic then.

Moving along, we have our tree. Every year, I question this. The setting of the tree, the writing of the note to Santa, the presents for the kids. Christmas to me,growing up in Singapore, meant a fmaily BBQ. When younger, it was a lavish affair. My dad’s friends would come and there was everything from King Crab to lobster. Massive amounts of satay and alcohol was consumed(obviously not by me). Later on, it  became a family affair at the beach. I havent been to one in the past 12-13 years since getting married.(oh I might have in 03). It was family, food and fun. No where was Santa and presents involved. No where.

My kids write notes to Santa. The 5 yr old wants a DS..the 7 yr old wants some craft thing. The 10 yr old, god knows what she wants. The 3 yr old wants Dinosaurs. I think the girls now know the whole Santa thing but am playing along for the boy’s benefit. We debated this whole the first year we moved to AMERICA and  we decided Santa and Christmas tree were allowed. Easter Bunny.. yeah he can hop onto the next house.

Monday MoneySavers

Each time, I enter my favourite thrift store, I make a bee line straight to the bags,scarves and shoes. I seldom turn to the left of the store. The household section. By the time I am done going through the racks and rack of clothes, I have to leave to pick up one of the monsters. But something changed my mind. I was  randomly clicking on blogs  and came upon this   Thethriftychicks and specifically this post, made me change my mind.

We had friends coming over for dinner on Sat night.  3 families. NK made a wonderful Rogan Jhosh and  briyani. Two of those friends were bringing over sabjis. NK bought chocolate cake for dessert, thus leaving me with nothing to do. Samar was napping, Neil and Ashwina on the computer and Avasha had a Girl Scouts event. So I decided to do a quick run to the thrift store(which turned out to be not so quick because of the downtown Christmas parade,but oh well)

I went in with no expectations. I wanted something to serve the home made snacks, my mom had made and sent from Singapore.I  also was on the lookout for 4 cocktail glasses. I have wine glasses(bought from Marshalls, a set of 4 for $12.99 of which 2 have chipped) This is what I found. Hold your breath.

A blue stew pot

A blue stew pot. $4.99.

I served the snacks in these.

I served the snacks in these.

These look like they are matching set but they arent. They were in the different parts of the store the one with the sliver(ish) handle was hiding behing a huge water pitcher. It was marked $4.99 but was 50% off. its a deep purple colour. The matching purple bowl was $2.99 and the candy bowl was $3.99. I served murruku in the square bowl, chivda in the candy bowl and something which is a Singaporean snack and I dont know its name in the one with the handle. I wished I had taken a picture of my dining table last night. I had candles floating and then these elegant serving dishes made everything look so pretty.

99 cents each

99 cents each

 Nk thought these were fantastic. They were the expensive, heavy kind.

New in the box unopened candles with river rock holders

New in the box unopened candles with river rock holders

Then I wandered over to the candle shelf. And dropped some $$ on candles. These had a original price tag of $14.99 and I bought it fom $1.99. They are tapered and have a wonderful scent. I bought 2-3 more candles to lit in the fireplace.

The blue one was $3.99 and the round one, $2. Ignore the cobwebs, they add characted

The blue one was $3.99 and the round one, $2. Ignore the cobwebs, they add character

I have a expensive set of dishes I bought 3 years ago Pfaltzgraff (stupid thing is now also chipped. 2 of the mugs broke and my heart bleds when I think of all the money I have wasted  spent over the years) from the mall. I think we paid like $120? The thing is though, we bought it for 4 place settings, so only 4 dinner plates, bowls and cups. I had 6 adults coming(including us would  have been 8 adults) I was hoping to find a set of matching 8 plates.I knew that was asking alot from the thrift gods. But maybe the gods were listening and I found these

$1.99 each * 6

$1.99 each * 6

They look like the ones found at Ikea for 99 cents but they arent. I just googled the brand and its a BIA brand. I am hoping to find more matching ones at the thrift stores and add to my collection.

At the store, I got into a very interesting conversation with Barbara. She was admiring my snack dish, the one with the handle and we started talking as we got into the line to pay for our purchases. I told her I have 4 kids, I am having a party, blah blah. She commented on my excellent taste. I then told her, Asians dont shop at thrift stores, and my spouse had a problem with it. I also told her I dont like to lie when some one compliments me on something and the next question is where is it from. What should I answer. What does she answer? She first asks the cashier, do you see Indians shopping in here(She was funny) The cashier said nope, not many Indians. and I said, see…I told you., its got to do with face value and they dont like people to think that they cannot afford brand new retail stuff. Then Barbara tells me if anyone asks you where you got your fantastic serving plates tonight, just say at collectibles store.

Now, no one asked me last night(I think they were jealous). But if you were invited to your friend’s house. Upon admiring something and you asked her how much was XYZ(it being a vase, painting, a jewellery she is wearing) she says she paid less than $5 for the very beautiful XYZ at a thrift store, what would be your reaction? Would it be” Oh Why did she have 4 kids if she wanted to shop at a thrift store” or ”Oh my god, I need to make her my bff and find out her secrets” Leave me a comment and let me know.

PS:I forgot to edit the publish thing to set it to publish tomorrow and so its now published on a Sunday but its Monday morning in Asia so we’ll go with that. Also I have big news coming up. Aneela I am NOT PREGNANT. So dont worry too much

Winner Is Announced

Dee your comment number was picked by the random generator thing. Lucky no 16. Can you email me your address? (Nk said the scarf should go to MM because all my readers are from her)

I know people ( Gud Di ), are curious about last night. Let’s just say  5 weeks of separation does wonders for one’s sexdrive marriage. The kids were so excited to go get Daddy from the airport. There is a video camera on the travellers leaving immigration as they walk out to arrival hall.We kept hoping the next one would be NK and Neil was screaming, that is not Daddy each time. Finally, he came out and the kids  ran screaming Daddy Daddy!, and hugged him.

The ride back home was fast. No traffic. There is something very erotic  romantic about holding hands and driving. It has always been Nk driving and if at all, I am in a good mood, then we might hold hands. Hardly ever do that though.

Reached home, more daddy daddy. Neil sat in his daddy’s lap for at least 5-6 mins, just hugging Daddy. Samar woke up this morning asking whether Daddy is here or has he gone back to India. The girls are loving the gifts he brought them. It sort of felt like the first few days of our marriage. When all we wanted to do was to be left alone and annoying relatives would keep visiting the inlaws house. This time, it was waiting for the kids to go to bed and they refused to do so. Same feeling, repeated 12 years later to the date. (side note:Tomorrow Dec 4th, we celebrate our 12th wedding anniv. Most peole get shocked when I say that. The next question out of the mouths is how old are you. 32 would be my answer and when they figure out I got married at 20, the 3rd question is(mostly Americans) was it like an arranged marriage. It always cracks me up when I say no, we met online back in 95 and we used Telnet to chat. end of side note)

Nk also brought back tons of stuff for me. Some good(a leather wallet, a black stole) and some better left unsaid(auntyji kurti which doesnt fit me. shorts??).  ET sent me a nice little gift bag., scarves, necklaces and really nice sling bag. Thank you so much. I cannot wait  to wear them in the next few weeks.

 Aren’t airports the best for people watching. A young guy was nervously pacing up and down. He had a single red rose stalk with some baby’s breath and card. Was he waiting for his fiance? His online girlfriend? Or his Russian mail order bride? Who knows. Another older Chinese couple were talking in Mandarin on their cell phone. They were waiting for their son. How long has it been since he left? Why did he go to HongKong? It was fun looking at people and guessing their stories. 

My monsters waiting patiently

My monsters waiting patiently

At the airport

At the airport, why I am so formally dressed is beyond me

 

1 Day Left/ Ooops

I forgot to blog today. I know I have a few tags lying around. I know I can do those but I want to give them the time and energy required. Its the end of the my daily blogging. Tomorrow evening, NK gets back.

Its been an interesting 4.5 weeks. I thought the first few days, I was going to drown in my own tears. I didnt want to do anything but cry the day he left. Maybe if I didnt have kids, I could thrown myself filmy style onto the bed with my long hair over the pillows,sobbing my heart out. But because I have 4 monsters, one isnt allowed to lie on bed until one is dead.The youngest child’s scream is in fact able to awaken even the dead.

The kids were on time for all school activities. I actually went out more than I would have, had Nk been here.  I did the dinner with the moms and the movie night out. I had actually said NO to the movie event when my friends had asked me earlier.And this was when NK was still around. Since I am hugely popular, I get invitations to quite a few things so I pick one event to go to once a month. I tend to feel guilty, leaving him to deal with the kids alone. So one event is all I do.

Even though I missed NK insanely, I had my routine down. I made chai after I dropped the older 3 kids in the morning, so that they wouldnt be late. I read till 11-12p/m because he wasnt there,saying light baand kardo. I speak to friends on the phone after the kids went to bed because he wasnt there gesturing that I should hang up after 10 20 30 mins of talking. I didnt get upset that the house wasnt clean.Because there was no one else to clean, I either did it or lived with the mess. I didnt get upset that he was sleeping in on a beautiful Sat morning when we all could have gone to the beach. I did what the kids and I wanted and life went on smoothly.

Now he is back and the bumps will be back.Kidding!

2 Days Left/ Monday Give-Away

 

You have until 10p/m PST time  tonight to comment. Good luck to all those who commented.

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I look at all the other blogs and see companies sponsoring them for a giftcard or jewelry or something that you always wanted but never bought. Or they are getting free stuff to review and keep. Since no one is beating  down  my doors(and I doubt anyone will), I thought I would do a give away thing of my own.

I also wanted to thank my wonderful, fantastic readers in my Thanksgiving post but uhmmm forgot to write that paragraph.So this is  a thank you to  so many of you, who leave me encouraging comments when I am down and upset. The ones who keep telling me I look fantastic in each and every outfit. The ones who emailed me when my child(ren) fall sick.Thank you from the very bottom of my heart. I wish I could give each person who comments here a little something,but alas that is not possible. But for someone, it might be just your lucky day

Leave me a comment , telling me how you found my blog and I will enter your name in a drawing for  drum roll A  Beautiful Scarf.

Its  a  gorgeous 100% silk long scarf. I bought it in Bangkok last year but have never used it. Its light enough, that I can ship it anywhere so the contest is open to everyone and anyone in the world. You will look elegant no matter how you wear it.

Brand new in packaging

Brand new in packaging

 

Beautiful shade of purple in the middle

Beautiful shade of purple in the middle

PS:The contest is open till I end my celibate status, so Wed night. I will have a winner Thur evening