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Monday MoneySavers

Each time, I enter my favourite thrift store, I make a bee line straight to the bags,scarves and shoes. I seldom turn to the left of the store. The household section. By the time I am done going through the racks and rack of clothes, I have to leave to pick up one of the monsters. But something changed my mind. I was  randomly clicking on blogs  and came upon this   Thethriftychicks and specifically this post, made me change my mind.

We had friends coming over for dinner on Sat night.  3 families. NK made a wonderful Rogan Jhosh and  briyani. Two of those friends were bringing over sabjis. NK bought chocolate cake for dessert, thus leaving me with nothing to do. Samar was napping, Neil and Ashwina on the computer and Avasha had a Girl Scouts event. So I decided to do a quick run to the thrift store(which turned out to be not so quick because of the downtown Christmas parade,but oh well)

I went in with no expectations. I wanted something to serve the home made snacks, my mom had made and sent from Singapore.I  also was on the lookout for 4 cocktail glasses. I have wine glasses(bought from Marshalls, a set of 4 for $12.99 of which 2 have chipped) This is what I found. Hold your breath.

A blue stew pot

A blue stew pot. $4.99.

I served the snacks in these.

I served the snacks in these.

These look like they are matching set but they arent. They were in the different parts of the store the one with the sliver(ish) handle was hiding behing a huge water pitcher. It was marked $4.99 but was 50% off. its a deep purple colour. The matching purple bowl was $2.99 and the candy bowl was $3.99. I served murruku in the square bowl, chivda in the candy bowl and something which is a Singaporean snack and I dont know its name in the one with the handle. I wished I had taken a picture of my dining table last night. I had candles floating and then these elegant serving dishes made everything look so pretty.

99 cents each

99 cents each

 Nk thought these were fantastic. They were the expensive, heavy kind.

New in the box unopened candles with river rock holders

New in the box unopened candles with river rock holders

Then I wandered over to the candle shelf. And dropped some $$ on candles. These had a original price tag of $14.99 and I bought it fom $1.99. They are tapered and have a wonderful scent. I bought 2-3 more candles to lit in the fireplace.

The blue one was $3.99 and the round one, $2. Ignore the cobwebs, they add characted

The blue one was $3.99 and the round one, $2. Ignore the cobwebs, they add character

I have a expensive set of dishes I bought 3 years ago Pfaltzgraff (stupid thing is now also chipped. 2 of the mugs broke and my heart bleds when I think of all the money I have wasted  spent over the years) from the mall. I think we paid like $120? The thing is though, we bought it for 4 place settings, so only 4 dinner plates, bowls and cups. I had 6 adults coming(including us would  have been 8 adults) I was hoping to find a set of matching 8 plates.I knew that was asking alot from the thrift gods. But maybe the gods were listening and I found these

$1.99 each * 6

$1.99 each * 6

They look like the ones found at Ikea for 99 cents but they arent. I just googled the brand and its a BIA brand. I am hoping to find more matching ones at the thrift stores and add to my collection.

At the store, I got into a very interesting conversation with Barbara. She was admiring my snack dish, the one with the handle and we started talking as we got into the line to pay for our purchases. I told her I have 4 kids, I am having a party, blah blah. She commented on my excellent taste. I then told her, Asians dont shop at thrift stores, and my spouse had a problem with it. I also told her I dont like to lie when some one compliments me on something and the next question is where is it from. What should I answer. What does she answer? She first asks the cashier, do you see Indians shopping in here(She was funny) The cashier said nope, not many Indians. and I said, see…I told you., its got to do with face value and they dont like people to think that they cannot afford brand new retail stuff. Then Barbara tells me if anyone asks you where you got your fantastic serving plates tonight, just say at collectibles store.

Now, no one asked me last night(I think they were jealous). But if you were invited to your friend’s house. Upon admiring something and you asked her how much was XYZ(it being a vase, painting, a jewellery she is wearing) she says she paid less than $5 for the very beautiful XYZ at a thrift store, what would be your reaction? Would it be” Oh Why did she have 4 kids if she wanted to shop at a thrift store” or ”Oh my god, I need to make her my bff and find out her secrets” Leave me a comment and let me know.

PS:I forgot to edit the publish thing to set it to publish tomorrow and so its now published on a Sunday but its Monday morning in Asia so we’ll go with that. Also I have big news coming up. Aneela I am NOT PREGNANT. So dont worry too much

Winner Is Announced

Dee your comment number was picked by the random generator thing. Lucky no 16. Can you email me your address? (Nk said the scarf should go to MM because all my readers are from her)

I know people ( Gud Di ), are curious about last night. Let’s just say  5 weeks of separation does wonders for one’s sexdrive marriage. The kids were so excited to go get Daddy from the airport. There is a video camera on the travellers leaving immigration as they walk out to arrival hall.We kept hoping the next one would be NK and Neil was screaming, that is not Daddy each time. Finally, he came out and the kids  ran screaming Daddy Daddy!, and hugged him.

The ride back home was fast. No traffic. There is something very erotic  romantic about holding hands and driving. It has always been Nk driving and if at all, I am in a good mood, then we might hold hands. Hardly ever do that though.

Reached home, more daddy daddy. Neil sat in his daddy’s lap for at least 5-6 mins, just hugging Daddy. Samar woke up this morning asking whether Daddy is here or has he gone back to India. The girls are loving the gifts he brought them. It sort of felt like the first few days of our marriage. When all we wanted to do was to be left alone and annoying relatives would keep visiting the inlaws house. This time, it was waiting for the kids to go to bed and they refused to do so. Same feeling, repeated 12 years later to the date. (side note:Tomorrow Dec 4th, we celebrate our 12th wedding anniv. Most peole get shocked when I say that. The next question out of the mouths is how old are you. 32 would be my answer and when they figure out I got married at 20, the 3rd question is(mostly Americans) was it like an arranged marriage. It always cracks me up when I say no, we met online back in 95 and we used Telnet to chat. end of side note)

Nk also brought back tons of stuff for me. Some good(a leather wallet, a black stole) and some better left unsaid(auntyji kurti which doesnt fit me. shorts??).  ET sent me a nice little gift bag., scarves, necklaces and really nice sling bag. Thank you so much. I cannot wait  to wear them in the next few weeks.

 Aren’t airports the best for people watching. A young guy was nervously pacing up and down. He had a single red rose stalk with some baby’s breath and card. Was he waiting for his fiance? His online girlfriend? Or his Russian mail order bride? Who knows. Another older Chinese couple were talking in Mandarin on their cell phone. They were waiting for their son. How long has it been since he left? Why did he go to HongKong? It was fun looking at people and guessing their stories. 

My monsters waiting patiently

My monsters waiting patiently

At the airport

At the airport, why I am so formally dressed is beyond me

 

1 Day Left/ Ooops

I forgot to blog today. I know I have a few tags lying around. I know I can do those but I want to give them the time and energy required. Its the end of the my daily blogging. Tomorrow evening, NK gets back.

Its been an interesting 4.5 weeks. I thought the first few days, I was going to drown in my own tears. I didnt want to do anything but cry the day he left. Maybe if I didnt have kids, I could thrown myself filmy style onto the bed with my long hair over the pillows,sobbing my heart out. But because I have 4 monsters, one isnt allowed to lie on bed until one is dead.The youngest child’s scream is in fact able to awaken even the dead.

The kids were on time for all school activities. I actually went out more than I would have, had Nk been here.  I did the dinner with the moms and the movie night out. I had actually said NO to the movie event when my friends had asked me earlier.And this was when NK was still around. Since I am hugely popular, I get invitations to quite a few things so I pick one event to go to once a month. I tend to feel guilty, leaving him to deal with the kids alone. So one event is all I do.

Even though I missed NK insanely, I had my routine down. I made chai after I dropped the older 3 kids in the morning, so that they wouldnt be late. I read till 11-12p/m because he wasnt there,saying light baand kardo. I speak to friends on the phone after the kids went to bed because he wasnt there gesturing that I should hang up after 10 20 30 mins of talking. I didnt get upset that the house wasnt clean.Because there was no one else to clean, I either did it or lived with the mess. I didnt get upset that he was sleeping in on a beautiful Sat morning when we all could have gone to the beach. I did what the kids and I wanted and life went on smoothly.

Now he is back and the bumps will be back.Kidding!

2 Days Left/ Monday Give-Away

 

You have until 10p/m PST time  tonight to comment. Good luck to all those who commented.

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I look at all the other blogs and see companies sponsoring them for a giftcard or jewelry or something that you always wanted but never bought. Or they are getting free stuff to review and keep. Since no one is beating  down  my doors(and I doubt anyone will), I thought I would do a give away thing of my own.

I also wanted to thank my wonderful, fantastic readers in my Thanksgiving post but uhmmm forgot to write that paragraph.So this is  a thank you to  so many of you, who leave me encouraging comments when I am down and upset. The ones who keep telling me I look fantastic in each and every outfit. The ones who emailed me when my child(ren) fall sick.Thank you from the very bottom of my heart. I wish I could give each person who comments here a little something,but alas that is not possible. But for someone, it might be just your lucky day

Leave me a comment , telling me how you found my blog and I will enter your name in a drawing for  drum roll A  Beautiful Scarf.

Its  a  gorgeous 100% silk long scarf. I bought it in Bangkok last year but have never used it. Its light enough, that I can ship it anywhere so the contest is open to everyone and anyone in the world. You will look elegant no matter how you wear it.

Brand new in packaging

Brand new in packaging

 

Beautiful shade of purple in the middle

Beautiful shade of purple in the middle

PS:The contest is open till I end my celibate status, so Wed night. I will have a winner Thur evening

3 Days Left/Random Crap

I went out with a bunch of crazy friends last night. We went out for dinner/drinks and then went to watch New Moon. Dinner was crazy. Our server might or might not have said, “Oh you can show your ass, I am gay It doesnt matter” Or we  may or may not have our curtains drawn because we were so loud and noisy.  I ordered a mudslide, which apparently was really really strong and I felt like wheee after 4 sips. I have become such a lightweight. The horrors of being pregnant and breastfeeding for so long means that I will take 2 sips and feel light headed. 2 cocktails and I am drunk, which is why I stop at one whenever I am out.

I wore a really nice outfit last night but didnt take any pictures.

The movie itself, if you are under the age of 18,20,25, then its boring. I thought it was too mushy and annoying at times. Both Edward and the werewolf guy didnt do anything for me. I am into older men, give me a George (Clooney) or a Robert(Downey–>is he considered an older guy) any time. The Zac Efrons of the world annoy me with their clean shaven looks.

I have been all blogged out. I have no topics left to discuss. None!

5 Days Left/ The Wedding

It’s today. The barat just arrived. The dulhan has wedding  jitters. She called me and said I cannot believe I am actually getting married. The jai mala is happening.

I am sitting here, drinking chai and making  breakfast for the monsters

Fuck!

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Update 1

Stupid Skype which refused to connect. I could hear the suaaaha and then green screen and the call gets dropped. So near yet so far. Thanks for trying though  BIL.

6 Days Left /Thanksgiving

FB has been full  of “I am thankful for….” status. Friends, Family, Jobs, Health and other things we take for granted.I too am thankful for all of the above.But I thought lets thank the really mundane stuff that no one notices.

I am thankful for having wireless internet. Which lets me play work on the laptop anywhere in the house.

I am thankful for the library here which stocks old Hindi movies and I get to borrow it for the family to watch

I am thankful for frozen waffles which makes the morning breakfast go so much faster and easier.

TURKEY

TURKEY

And last but not least, I am thankful for my friends. The ones who texted and emailed and joined me in cursing NK and his trip. June, who invited us over for turkey and dinner. Its only been a year since we moved and I have made quite a few friends. I remember being depressed because I had no one to hang out with and was missing my friends back in CO.While I still miss those friends(esp you Roisin), its been great meeting new ones. Manon who shares her photography skills, friends who pick the girls up froms school. Friends from the preschool.

Today's Outfit

Today's Outfit

Black Cardigan: TJMaxx

Dress:Target,Thrifted $4.99. It was floor length and very flattering except over the tummy where my paunch is sticking out. The dress had one grommet missing and I tied the pink scarf to hide that fact.

Rose Quartz Necklace:Thrifted

Coach Black Shoes

7 Days Till NK gets back/Random Stuff

The photography class ended. On a high note. The last class was about framing and matting. She put all the students’ names in a box   and the person whose name was picked would get a free photo frame. Guess who got picked? Moi! I had a time deciding between Avasha’s pic and Neil’s. I finally chose Neil, all the other students said to pick that one as well. She framed it and it looks breathtaking beautiful. I look at it and sigh.

 

Crappy pic from phone

Crappy pic from phone

All my pictures at class

All my pictures at class

Today's Outfit

Weird Feet Placement.

Skirt:Thrifted and worn here

Cardigan:Worn here and heeded PL’s advise about teaming it with a sleeveless tanktop

Chunky Bangles/Bracelet:Thrifted

Tights:Forever 21

Coach Shoes

Sunglasses;Marshalls $5

Looking at this picture, the skirt makes me look broaded than I am. Maybe I should have used the skinny belt to give it more body. Oh well, I worked in Samar’s classroom and it made for such a comfortable outfit with the tights.

ETA: Edited post to remove stuff which according to some people cough NK cough, I shouldnt have written. And since I am such a GOOD wife, I did. :)

8 Days Till NK Gets Back/Daily Outfit

I need to organize my closet. Get rid of clothes which are too big, for example the jeans I wore yesterday. Although very comfy, they are a tad too big and look very unflattering on me(at least from what I could see in the mirror). I have a small closet,of which there are 3 suitcases stuffed on the floor. Its very difficult to locate stuff sometimes. And sometimes, I forget what I bought and threw back in there.
Like this beautiful cardigan/shrug I bought months ago at the church rummage sale. I also threw it in the tub and washed it despite its Drycleaning Only instructions and the end result was it shrunk and can barely cover my boobs.  
 
purple (4)

Jeans:Marshalls which are now going to go to the Goodwill Pile

Purple Top:TJMaxx

Shrug:Church Rummage Sale 50 cents

Necklace:Estate Sale Haul

Purple Shoes:Seychelles brandnew Thrifted $9.99 ET, I debuted them

Shoes
Shoes

Tuesday looks like this.

8.00a/m drop kids off

8.45-11.30;Work in Samar’s classroom

11.45 pick Neil up

12.35:Friend drops off girls(still early dismissal)

1.30-2-00:Avasha’s Conference

3-Drop Ashwina off at school for Flute

4-Pick Ashwina up after Flute lesson(4th trip for the day to the school)

5-6;Dinner-Get Ready for Photoclass. Last Class. Wait for Babysitter

6.30-9.00-Photography Class

9.30-Reach Back home. Say bye to sitter

10.45-11-Bedtime for me.

*Writing this at 10.00p/m Monday night.:)

9 Days till NK Gets back/Monday Moneysavers

I didnt have anything to post this week but one of my “readers” saved me. I had forwarded Sujatha an ad to an estate sale in our area, which I wanted to go but had no time at all since I had pack and get ready for the trip. But she went and found some deals. See its not only me who finds them. And yes its real. I dont make up the bargains I find. I am thrilled that you went and bought something. Hopefully we’ll go to one together some time. Thank you very much for sending me the pictures.

 

Jewelry Case

Jewelry Case $1


Brand New Purse $5

Brand New Purse $5

Belts, I am jealous. $2 each

Belts, I am jealous. $2 each

Everything she bought

Everything she bought