Too close to Home

You know how read about something in the papers,  a hit and run accident or a child being abused. You read it, your heart aches for the affected person, you hug your babies a little closer and then life goes on.What happens though when the said crime actually happens in your neighbourhood? The one you mistakenly thought was safe and sound and nothing bad ever happens here.

Monday evening, an email was sent out by the school principal. An attempted kidnapping on a 3rd grader.

Newspaper Report here

This 3rd grader is someone we know. She is a gutsy girl who knew what to do. She fought him off and ran home. It could have been much worse. When the girls came home yesterday, I asked them about this.They didnt know which girl personally but they were both a bit scared.

We talked about people men who try to lure you with promises of cute dogs or a stranger that says your mummy and daddy sent me to pick you up. We talked about screaming and shouting and running away if some one is making you comfortable. After 10 mins of hypothetical scenarios, both said, can we stop now.

At night, when I was lying down beside Avasha, she said Mama, will someone try to kidnap me? I said no.. but you have to be careful and not talk to strangers.I then said sleep Avasha, dont worry I am here.

But I am not. The girls are gone from 7.30-3.00 every single day. They ride the bus home. Anything can happen. What does one do?

Updated Info:

Boulder County Sheriff’s deputies have made an arrest in an incident reported Monday afternoon, October 13th, that was initially thought to have been an attempted child abduction. However, after extensive investigation, circumstances lead investigators to believe that the suspect’s intentions were far less nefarious.

 

Sheriff’s deputies were notified at about 3:15 p.m. Monday that a young girl had been accosted in the Heatherwood subdivision while walking home from Heatherwood Elementary School. The third-grader reported that a man in his late teens or early 20′s, standing near a silver Toyota that was parked along the street, grabbed her by the arm as she passed by. The girl kicked the man and ran home to report the incident to her parents.

 

Investigators located the Toyota Wednesday afternoon and spoke with the owner, who confirmed that she had been visiting an acquaintance in the area at the time of the incident. She was accompanied by her grandson, Aksel A. Taylor, 19, of Boulder, who remained outside with the parked vehicle, tending her dog. Interviews lead detectives to believe that Mr. Taylor, suspecting that the girl’s presence incited the dog’s incessant barking, inappropriately attempted to frighten the girl by lurching at her and grasping her arm. Follow-up interviews with the victim did not reveal any statements made or actions taken on the part of the suspect that would indicate the intent to abduct the child or support a kidnapping charge. The victim was uninjured.

 

Mr. Taylor was booked and released from the Boulder County Jail on a misdemeanor charge of Harassment. Sheriff’s detectives have been in contact with the Boulder Police Department regarding recent suspicious incidents involving children in the Boulder area and are confident that this incident is not related to them.

 

This media release may be found on the Boulder County Sheriff’s Office web-site at: www.bouldersheriff.org

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0 Responses to Too close to Home

  1. K 3 says:

    OMG! I hope the girl is doing fine.

    I dont knw what one can do, other than I guess teach our kids to ‘fight, scream, and pray’ Fight the bloody guy, scream for your life and pray that these sickos never get up from their bed in the morning to ruin anyone lives!

    Me:She is okay and back at school today.

  2. K 3 says:

    re-reading what I typed up, sounds so horrid, na! But this post just touched a nerve! Sorry!

  3. La Vida Loca says:

    OMG! Hugs*

    Me:Thanks

  4. Isha says:

    Thats so scary…U can keep telling them time and again, NEVER talk to strangers and NEVER walk anywhere alone..Either be together or a least in a group..
    And the minute school is over, get on the bus and go straight home.Tell my nieces, NEVER to wander the streets alone, at any time of the day..No time, be it day or night is safe anymore.There are sick pervetic people out there..

    Dun worry, this girls are tough..No one will be able to sweet talk them.Coz it doesnt work on this two girls…

    Isha

    Me:Yeah we talked about it again tonight. They told me they would never stray and get straight on the bus. Very scary.

  5. Reema says:

    yes as Isha says one could only keep on teaching them what to do and what not to do. What a world it is where even little kids are not safe.

  6. quirky quill says:

    Well, dont panic to begin with because it would just make things seem worse and more terrifying, esp. for your kids.
    Second, be thankful that this is a one off case and that you got advance notice to teach your kids the appropriate response in such a situation.
    And third and a rather academic, unactionable thing to do would be to pray that people stop committing these random acts and value life and all the good that can come of it.
    On a side note, does it not make you appreciate Singapore and it’s low crime bliss?

    Me: I think I am fine now..But still it is scary. I do miss Singapore and it low crime but most of all, I miss the FOOD.

  7. gnd says:

    Wow! That’s so scary! It’s one thing when kids read a book and ask you questions about things like death or kidnapping or robbers, but it’s terrible that the kids are worried after being so close to an incident like this…maybe a good thing to give them a wary eye, but still…

    me:Its been a week now, and they seem to have forgotten about it. Stupid guy was caught though

  8. choxbox says:

    on one hand you want them to become independent and on the other you want to keep them close and protect them.
    phew.

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