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		<title>By: Violet</title>
		<link>http://asaaan.com/2008/12/25/and-a-ho-ho-ho/comment-page-1/#comment-2048</link>
		<dc:creator>Violet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jan 2009 21:08:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t know, my husband gets me stuff very very rarely, mostly when he goes abroad or on birthdays(not always!). And the reason he gives me is that I don&#039;t appreciate what he gets. Now, I do get disappointed when he gets useless stuff at exorbitant prices, but at the same time it is far more disappointing not getting a gift at all :( Don&#039;t let that happen to you... To be honest, a $40 nail polish would pinch me lots but I would still love it if he had the courage to get it for me!

&lt;em&gt;Me:My mom called and told me I should have given it to her. I dont know seriously a 40 Chanel and $1.99 Walgreens wala nail polish, no one can tell the difference.&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know, my husband gets me stuff very very rarely, mostly when he goes abroad or on birthdays(not always!). And the reason he gives me is that I don&#8217;t appreciate what he gets. Now, I do get disappointed when he gets useless stuff at exorbitant prices, but at the same time it is far more disappointing not getting a gift at all <img src='http://asaaan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />  Don&#8217;t let that happen to you&#8230; To be honest, a $40 nail polish would pinch me lots but I would still love it if he had the courage to get it for me!</p>
<p><em>Me:My mom called and told me I should have given it to her. I dont know seriously a 40 Chanel and $1.99 Walgreens wala nail polish, no one can tell the difference.</em></p>
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		<title>By: jottingsnmusings</title>
		<link>http://asaaan.com/2008/12/25/and-a-ho-ho-ho/comment-page-1/#comment-2040</link>
		<dc:creator>jottingsnmusings</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2008 23:41:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A very Happy New Year to you S!

You might find this interesting - I work on a software product that manages returns for some very famous retailers... we were swamped with return traffic the day after Xmas... does it help (your husband) to know you have so much company? :)

&lt;em&gt;Me:Ha!Good to know&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A very Happy New Year to you S!</p>
<p>You might find this interesting &#8211; I work on a software product that manages returns for some very famous retailers&#8230; we were swamped with return traffic the day after Xmas&#8230; does it help (your husband) to know you have so much company? <img src='http://asaaan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><em>Me:Ha!Good to know</em></p>
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		<title>By: Abha</title>
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		<dc:creator>Abha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2008 09:19:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>:)

oh well! he tried! and you got what you wanted eventually! fair enough!

you know i think most self help books are crap, but one thing i learnt from men ar from mars kinda crap is that men are NOT intutive not great listeners!

its best to just ask for what you want! :D

M has improved tremendously! ofcos he sticks to clothes and i must admit tho initially i freak out seeing stuff he has bought, eventually it does look darn good! :D

perfume and make uo shake up, he knows he shouldnt bother with!

happy new year lady! and the family!

cheers!

&lt;em&gt;Me:I know! I told him cash/gift card and time alone to do something I want..He is now insisting he will  NEVER  BUY ME ANYTHING.&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <img src='http://asaaan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>oh well! he tried! and you got what you wanted eventually! fair enough!</p>
<p>you know i think most self help books are crap, but one thing i learnt from men ar from mars kinda crap is that men are NOT intutive not great listeners!</p>
<p>its best to just ask for what you want! <img src='http://asaaan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>M has improved tremendously! ofcos he sticks to clothes and i must admit tho initially i freak out seeing stuff he has bought, eventually it does look darn good! <img src='http://asaaan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>perfume and make uo shake up, he knows he shouldnt bother with!</p>
<p>happy new year lady! and the family!</p>
<p>cheers!</p>
<p><em>Me:I know! I told him cash/gift card and time alone to do something I want..He is now insisting he will  NEVER  BUY ME ANYTHING.</em></p>
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		<title>By: Sue</title>
		<link>http://asaaan.com/2008/12/25/and-a-ho-ho-ho/comment-page-1/#comment-2046</link>
		<dc:creator>Sue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2008 07:39:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just say thanks and then when the colour doesn&#039;t suit, ask if it&#039;s possible to exchange. If not, mix with another colour and wear.

Criticising a gift is done only when I&#039;m in a really nasty mood.

&lt;em&gt;Me:Hmmm..Next time maybe :)&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just say thanks and then when the colour doesn&#8217;t suit, ask if it&#8217;s possible to exchange. If not, mix with another colour and wear.</p>
<p>Criticising a gift is done only when I&#8217;m in a really nasty mood.</p>
<p><em>Me:Hmmm..Next time maybe <img src='http://asaaan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </em></p>
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		<title>By: La Vida Loca</title>
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		<dc:creator>La Vida Loca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2008 05:09:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>think this is the first time I am seeing all of ur kids at one time..v v super cute :)

&lt;em&gt;Me:Thanks! Its is really tough to get a picture of all 4 of them.&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>think this is the first time I am seeing all of ur kids at one time..v v super cute <img src='http://asaaan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><em>Me:Thanks! Its is really tough to get a picture of all 4 of them.</em></p>
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		<title>By: Anita</title>
		<link>http://asaaan.com/2008/12/25/and-a-ho-ho-ho/comment-page-1/#comment-2044</link>
		<dc:creator>Anita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Dec 2008 16:57:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my gosh... that whole conversation could have been heard in our household too.  When we first got married, AJ told himself that he would buy me a piece of jewelry for every special occasion.  The first time, he bought gold jewelry that looked like it was for an older woman.  I never wore them and we did have a big fight about it and he swore never to buy me a gift again.  Yet, he still tries every so often, and like NK, fails horribly.  I know he is trying to be sweet and romantic, but I am like you - give me a gift card anyday, and 2-3 hours without the kids would be HEAVEN.

By the way, if you still haven&#039;t gotten your boots, let&#039;s go shopping this weekend if you can get away in the evening.  I need boots too.

&lt;em&gt;Me:Arghh sounds like some men need to take lessons. We have to teach our boys to be better gift givers.:) &lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my gosh&#8230; that whole conversation could have been heard in our household too.  When we first got married, AJ told himself that he would buy me a piece of jewelry for every special occasion.  The first time, he bought gold jewelry that looked like it was for an older woman.  I never wore them and we did have a big fight about it and he swore never to buy me a gift again.  Yet, he still tries every so often, and like NK, fails horribly.  I know he is trying to be sweet and romantic, but I am like you &#8211; give me a gift card anyday, and 2-3 hours without the kids would be HEAVEN.</p>
<p>By the way, if you still haven&#8217;t gotten your boots, let&#8217;s go shopping this weekend if you can get away in the evening.  I need boots too.</p>
<p><em>Me:Arghh sounds like some men need to take lessons. We have to teach our boys to be better gift givers.:) </em></p>
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		<title>By: Isha</title>
		<link>http://asaaan.com/2008/12/25/and-a-ho-ho-ho/comment-page-1/#comment-2043</link>
		<dc:creator>Isha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Dec 2008 06:06:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So dad was reading this post, he was trying to explain to mum...

So mum said u r k*** and that you should always &quot;ahbishake&quot; what your husband gives you..

So I quoted examples of when dad gave her things and what she did wif it.

So like mother like daughter.

So after reading this post dad was reading BB and AB post.
And he asked mum &quot;This is the pasir ris house?
and mum said &quot;He gave her lipstick in the pasir ris house house&quot;??

Lol....
Well is more funny if u hear how she says it.

P/S:Mum says the gifts are nice.
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Me:Yes tell her it is nice but doesnt suit my skin tone. She would said, keep it for then I know. And she is confused lah..&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So dad was reading this post, he was trying to explain to mum&#8230;</p>
<p>So mum said u r k*** and that you should always &#8220;ahbishake&#8221; what your husband gives you..</p>
<p>So I quoted examples of when dad gave her things and what she did wif it.</p>
<p>So like mother like daughter.</p>
<p>So after reading this post dad was reading BB and AB post.<br />
And he asked mum &#8220;This is the pasir ris house?<br />
and mum said &#8220;He gave her lipstick in the pasir ris house house&#8221;??</p>
<p>Lol&#8230;.<br />
Well is more funny if u hear how she says it.</p>
<p>P/S:Mum says the gifts are nice.<br />
<em><br />
Me:Yes tell her it is nice but doesnt suit my skin tone. She would said, keep it for then I know. And she is confused lah..</em></p>
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		<title>By: mummyjaan</title>
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		<dc:creator>mummyjaan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2008 19:59:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awww, but you were able to return it so it&#039;s okay now, isn&#039;t it?

This is the problem with &#039;surprise&#039; gifts. He shoulda done his homework better.  Although it *definitely* counts that he spent the time and effort shopping for beloved you!


&lt;em&gt;Me:Yup all is okay now!&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awww, but you were able to return it so it&#8217;s okay now, isn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p>This is the problem with &#8216;surprise&#8217; gifts. He shoulda done his homework better.  Although it *definitely* counts that he spent the time and effort shopping for beloved you!</p>
<p><em>Me:Yup all is okay now!</em></p>
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		<title>By: Broom</title>
		<link>http://asaaan.com/2008/12/25/and-a-ho-ho-ho/comment-page-1/#comment-2041</link>
		<dc:creator>Broom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2008 19:36:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Poor guy. I&#039;m kinda on his side.

And this is why you should date/marry a woman. :)

&lt;em&gt;Me:rofl&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Poor guy. I&#8217;m kinda on his side.</p>
<p>And this is why you should date/marry a woman. <img src='http://asaaan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><em>Me:rofl</em></p>
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		<title>By: East Meets West</title>
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		<dc:creator>East Meets West</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Dec 2008 20:23:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re an ungrateful bitch and lack tact to boot :-).

&lt;em&gt;Me:I am&gt;..I know!&lt;/em&gt;

But it&#039;s true that after 13 yrs he should have known better. Though people are known to change over time so maybe he was just checking you out.
I think with mine we&#039;re starting to come to some understanding. If I really want something, I talk about it from time to time. Since he wouldn&#039;t have the time to go look for it, he&#039;ll just tell me to go get it myself. It&#039;s not the same as me just going ahead to buy me something w/o 1st letting him know. That&#039;s my gift to me. And I don&#039;t like his surprises, we do not have the same taste and should just live with that. I hope that I&#039;ve made that clear enough (e.g. keep buying him things he doesn&#039;t like to get the point across).

&lt;em&gt;Me:I was talking about the Wii and Wii Fit and he refused to take that hint. What can I do?&lt;/em&gt;

For x&#039;mas as usual he didn&#039;t buy me anything. But I kept insisting it&#039;s OK with me, I don&#039;t really mind that as I have more fun buying gifts for others. Then the next day, he announced to his family that I could go ahead and buy myself a diamond and spend as much as I want. That&#039;s so sweet, don&#039;t you think so?

&lt;em&gt;Me:I saw your emerald ring..Thats reallly pretty. And you get to buy another one!&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re an ungrateful bitch and lack tact to boot <img src='http://asaaan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> .</p>
<p><em>Me:I am&gt;..I know!</em></p>
<p>But it&#8217;s true that after 13 yrs he should have known better. Though people are known to change over time so maybe he was just checking you out.<br />
I think with mine we&#8217;re starting to come to some understanding. If I really want something, I talk about it from time to time. Since he wouldn&#8217;t have the time to go look for it, he&#8217;ll just tell me to go get it myself. It&#8217;s not the same as me just going ahead to buy me something w/o 1st letting him know. That&#8217;s my gift to me. And I don&#8217;t like his surprises, we do not have the same taste and should just live with that. I hope that I&#8217;ve made that clear enough (e.g. keep buying him things he doesn&#8217;t like to get the point across).</p>
<p><em>Me:I was talking about the Wii and Wii Fit and he refused to take that hint. What can I do?</em></p>
<p>For x&#8217;mas as usual he didn&#8217;t buy me anything. But I kept insisting it&#8217;s OK with me, I don&#8217;t really mind that as I have more fun buying gifts for others. Then the next day, he announced to his family that I could go ahead and buy myself a diamond and spend as much as I want. That&#8217;s so sweet, don&#8217;t you think so?</p>
<p><em>Me:I saw your emerald ring..Thats reallly pretty. And you get to buy another one!</em></p>
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