Comments on: So you think you're better than me!

By: tearsndreams

tearsndreams — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 16:48:16 +0000

Roopie dear

Hope you already know we have agreed to disagree. Do you really want to drag it further

I think I started out on ur blog saying I disagree with anyone who says I would never do such and such thing.
Dont say it till you have experienced it

We all judge. Like S says here. But keep your judgments to ur own self. Please don’t act morally superior

There are things that I dont understand like why someone would say let their partner treat them like a child but I hesitate from saying its wrong or I’d never coz frankly I don’t know If I would ever have to.
And this one was just an example, not a personal situation coz as far as atay at home and working is concerned, I have been on both sides.

Me: Am not going to get involved in this one. Just approving it.

By: Roop Rai

Roop Rai — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 01:11:06 +0000

AMEN, homie!!!!!

wut surprizes me though that the same t&d (first commenter), a few weeks ago, defended judging other mothers. how is she in agreement now?

By: the mad momma

the mad momma — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 04:36:25 +0000

I would NEVER write a post like this :p

*runs like hell as she sees it coming to bite her butt*

Me:

By: Munchkin's Mom

Munchkin's Mom — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 18:34:24 +0000

I thought it was mostly an Indian affliction,judging people all the way to hell and back. Looks like I was wrong.

What to say, ignore,ignore,ignore.

Me: Everyone judges. Everyone and their dog.

By: Abha

Abha — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 12:28:32 +0000

oh well! there must have been few times when i thought oh! i am this maha-cool mom for X Y Z reasons! but now i dont offer unwarranted and unasked advice! its just not worth it!

and yeah! some people just dont “get” it and keep giving gyaan!

you know there an aunt whom we visit every now and then! now cubby is a fussy eater, so i take cerelac because its easy to feed. every single time she will tell me, but now you can give him khichdi and roti etc! and i keep telling her that i do it at home, but its too much trouble to do it in other peoples homes! and it annoys me to NO end!!! grrrr!

Me: Sigh..its worse when i’s a relative and you have to grin and bear it.

and frankly some parts of it made me laugh! esp growing and feeding organic yams!!

cheers!

By: Rohini

Rohini — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 07:54:54 +0000

Amen.

By: spamwarrior

spamwarrior — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 22:50:24 +0000

I think your 10 year old would be responsible.

I hate it, hate it, when people judge like that >.< I remember reading something on Oprah about how this mom was going on and on about a vaccine giving her kid autism and she was going on and on about how we shouldn't vaccinate our kids for measles and mumps… again, it's her call. But I don't think she should be going on a show and talking about it as if all moms should do that and as if all moms that did vaccinate their kids were losers.

Me: Oh my god.. The vaccination is whole nother can of worms. Seriously, it pisses me off.

By: Mom Gone Mad

Mom Gone Mad — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 21:25:35 +0000

Amen! Bravo! and hugs

By: She Started It

She Started It — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 13:03:30 +0000

I find myself not telling people what I do, since I tend to be a far more relaxed parent than most (kids can play outside without me watching, bike to friends’ houses, etc.) But that’s sad, isn’t it?

Me: Its is. I sometimes do the same.

By: rads

rads — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 11:43:44 +0000

lol! We all do what works for us. We can have our opinions, but no one else cares for them.

Me: Yes! You know, i dont mind listening to other’s opinions. I have no problems whatsoever. Its when people start forcing their way on another, is what gets my goat.