I realise there are many many ways one can express shock and surprise at the number of kids we have. We were invited to another birthday party. We only know the host at this one, the rest were strangers but they all knew each other. After the party, R(an old friend of NK’s) said, lets go back to their house. NK and I agreed.
When we were there, another family called to say since they missed the party at the gymnastics’s place, they were going to come over.The adults are sitting at the dining table.
UPGUY: Appke kitne bache hai.(How many kids you have?)
NK: Char(4)
UPGUY:Charo yaha par hi hai kya(Are they all here)
Me(I was in the kitchen helping the hostess ): Aur kaha ho ga(Where else would they be)
UPGUY: Appke shaadi kab hui? (When did you get married)
NK:1997
UPGUY: Ab 97 say shuru karenge to char hogenge na(If you start from 97, then you will have 4 kids)
Me: I come back to the dining room to verify what I heard.
NK:Bade kismet wala ho milte hai 2 ledki aur 2 lerka. Bas kuch saal aur meray das hath hoge.(Only lucky people have 2 girls and 2 boys. In a few years, I would have 10 hands)
I give NK a wtf look. So after this family left, NK was talking to his friend and said maine maaf kar diya pange nahi liye usse. R was like he doesnt think before talking anyways. R said tumko aur kuch bolna ta. We left it at that!
Love the pic on ur header. your kids r beautiful!!
There are creeps everywhere I tell you!!
So .. what exactly was that person trying to say ??? “If you start from 97, then you will have 4 kids” … grrrrrrr
Me:Maybe he meant to say we were having too much sex? I didnt really get it either? Who knows?
Idiots. Just leave it at that.
*rolls eyes* Was he drunk?
Me: Nope he wasnt!
WTH! What is the problem with some people if someone has 1 or 4 or 8 kids?
“Ab 97 say shuru karenge to char hogenge na..”
Your husband reply should be: Yep! my wife is HOT so control nahin hua. Jab se shaadi ki tab se shuru kar diya.
Pity that your wife is ugly so you didn’t have to bother.
Me: My husband was speechless for a while. Then that was best he could come up
What!! How can people be so dumb!!!?!!! Aaarrrrgh. I had a similar experience while I was waiting at the gynac 9 mo pregnant and an old lady asks me “kya bimari hai!” And when I tell her that I am pregnant, she asks “Oh, shaadi ho gayi?”
Me: Old lady asking that? What did you say? Nahi and patay nahi kiske bacha hai…rofl
hmm weird logic!
Argh. Why cant people shut up and mind their own business.
4 kids or 10 kids.
Uske baap ka kya ja raha hai!
Gah!
Thats a very stupid statement na? NK should have said yeah we both have a big libido so control nahin hua…..aapka sex me interest kum hain kya?
Why do you keep getting these types?
Girl, I don’t know how you manage to meet these nuts. Some people just make me so mad. I’m surprised the host didn’t say anything. Did they ? Waise bhi, aise logon se kya kahenge ?
Priya
Me: They didnt say anything. The lady was in the kitchen with me and the dad said later, woh aise hi bakwaas karte hai.
I can imagine that. Even though I didn’t understand the last part which is not translated.
I hear from even larger families what kind of comments they get. People are designed to think about one’s own feeling (sometimes not!). NO wonder 95% of them don’t think about other’s feelings before talking.
Jesus! How come you run into these idiots every time?!
you keep having these wtf moments innit?
really crazy! best is to just ignore em, i tell ya!
Or why bring his wife? something like.. Sad! that you couldn’t do IT.
Me: rofl
I was too shocked and stared at her in disbelief. My husband who was parking the car arrived right on time and we went into the gynac’s cabin