The party is over. Any party is stressful, whether you invite 8 families or 80. From the venue, to the theme to the food to party favours. I did everything except the cake. the cake was delegated to NK. He went and ordered it with the boys. When I opened the cake box, my friend and I burst out laughing. It was either that or start crying. It was a white cake with white icing. It cost us $40. A cake from Costo which would have looked so much better would have been twenty thousand times better. Not to mention about $20 cheaper. Here is pictorial proof of the cake.
I like to think my friends had fun. I think they did. The kids had fun. We played 3 games and then they was running around. I served store-bought samosa, spinach dip with rice chips, cheese platter with crackers and fresh fruit. We also ordered pizza.







take a break and sleep well.
Me:Take a break. have a kitkat.
LOL!!! was the decorator,sleeping,when she wrote the message in white ON white!??
But the party seems like fun…the boys look happy!
Where is the other cake?
Me: Nk claims there was language problem. He came up with, its the Ice Age cake. I seriously didnt know what to do with and wanted to kill for screwing it up. I put a picture of Samars cake,which i baked.
i think either NK or the cake person had a Yash Chopra fixation…white chandni white.
Me: rofl.
Was it Samar’s bday party or Neil’s? Cute matching shirts!
Me: It was boths. Neil’s was 3rd Oct and Samar’s was 10th. I threw a combine birthday party. How long do you think they will wear matchy matchy shirts
Men shall always be men. You can count on them to screw up the little bit they need to manage, and then they crib about us for nitpicking. I think the party must have been good. I am sure the kids had loads of fun, and hence your effort was quite worth it!!
haha..i understand your reaction about the cake!
and i’m sure the party went off well! and hope you get some well deserved rest
I don’t think my marriage could have survived that cake.
Reminds me of my friend not knowing whether to laugh or cry when she opened the cakebox…the icing said Many Happy Rahul. she was quite sure that ONE happy Rahul was enough for her!
Me: Sigh..
Breathe! It’s all over:)
Me: It is.
Happy birthday to Samar. All your kids are officially grown up now
That sure called for a party.
white on white?! ya allaaah!
at our last party – the ijeets put the icing while the cake was still warm and the person who went to pick it up of course didn’t bother to check. 5 min before the cake was to be cut i saw it and grabbed two packets of cadburys gems and sprinkled them all over the cake, much to the delight of the birthday kid!
Me: That sounds pretty. I’m sure the kids loved the “gems”
LOL!!! Even before I read ur blog.. I saw the “white” cake and thought perhaps ur boys have decided upon no color cake this year and U had to grudgingly oblige!!! Bless ur friends who added the Dinos on the cake to make it look teenie-weenie better…
But at least the party’s over… I agree with u abt not having a party at all… I feel I end up entertaining people who dont need it while not paying 100% attention to the bday baby… Anyday, a dinner, movie, bowling etc with family is better than entertaining isnt it..
Me: It does take attention away from the child. The good thing I guess was, no one cried at my party. All the kids had fun running around. So that makes up for the cake.
I was looking forward to pictures of the outfit. If there wasn’t a child to consider, I would have thrown the cake back at the husband’s face.
Me: I actually stormed out to scream at him. And then stormed back in.If I wasnt the way I was, I think I have might started crying and screaming at him.
I am late but happy bday samar
It dint let me comment in the last post said some wordpress error. The party looks like funa nd I am sure its a lotta work for ou and LOL @ the ice age cake . btw why does it just say neil where is samar’s cake??
Me: I made Samar’s cake. He is allergic to almost everything hence the cake which taste like cardboard.
Happy Birthday to Neil. So did the boys really pick the cake? That explains it, but hey if they loved it, isn’t that what matters?
Me: Nope the boys didnt pick it. NK did!
Did they know the cake was for a kid? That’s funny. I can expect something similar from the OH too. A very happy b’day to the boys. Hope they had a blast!
Me: I seriously dont know what that person was thinking.
hahah! Just you wait.. 20 yrs down the lane, you’ll still be talking about this ice age cake and not the perfect cakes that came before and after.
Happy Bday again to the boys!
Me: Good point. I will throw this out at random times to make him feel guilty
OK … party over … the angry / embarassing moment is over
But just curious, what did NK have in mind? Accepted that there might have been a language problem … but what was his “Cake design” idea ??
Me: When I asked him, he said party hogaye cake bhi kaa liya app uska baare mei baat nahi karo.
Didn’t NK bother to check the cake before brining it home?
Me: He did. When he came back to the party, he said the cake isnt right. I was busy with things and said I will look at it later. I didnt glance at the box until it was time to bring the cake out.
You have to submit that cake to the cake wrecks blog. That is too funny!
http://cakewrecks.blogspot.com/
hahaha the cake is too funny. what’s funnier is the shadow of a head in that photo.
how did it taste?
i totally love the latest post-with pics of your four kids having such fun. i want four four kids!!!!
Awww, I am sorry we missed it! I bet everyone had a great time!
Wow, amazing cake decorator I must say!
Glad you survived, glad no one(including you!) cried, glad kiddies had fun.
I agree though – cozy homey days for the win!
LOL’ing at the cake. You should go and ask the decorator what she was thinking.
Glad the party was fun and hoping you got a few hours of rest after.
Belated birthday wishes to both Neil and Samar !
The party looks fun ! Next time, make sure that you yourself order the cake
yay well done on the party.
Ahh yes the cake. I sympathise with you.
I did everything for Bubba’s 1st birthday. My MIL says she’ll do the cake. to keep the peace I agree. She says it’s in teh shape of number 1 and is gorgeous. It arrives. UGLY blue/green in colour and well looks like a square to me…with to tiny blue green roses on it (u can see it my FB photos). I could have just died. She paid a lot to the person making it too. I had 60 guests and tiny ugly cake. Thank goodness we had enough food. Cos it was my MIL i had to cut that cake. I was so mad. ahh. I still am.
umm..sorry i missed..:D I think I like the one that you baked more!
LOL!