I was speaking to NK this afternoon and he said, he was sad that I didnt seem to be missing him. That I wasnt pining for him. I told him, to grow up. I am dealing with the 4 monsters kids of ours, and I have no time to be missing him. We spoke a while longer and then hung up.
I then thought ,hmm let me count the ways I miss him.
I miss him when both boys are pooping at the same time and both need their butts wiped. I wished he could do one and better yet do both. I missed him when Samar had an accident at 3 in the morning and I had to change the sheets.
I miss fighting over the last bit of chai left in the chai bartan. I miss the evening chai when he comes home.
I miss the good bye kiss when he leaves for work. I miss talking to him and telling him about the bitchy mom in the co-op. I miss calling him up at work and telling him, that when I was straightening my hair, Neil asked me, whether I was making my hair younger.
I miss telling him how this stupid bastard cut me while driving. I miss his sarcastic comments about my outfit each morning.
But the thing I miss most of all, the sex.
There, I said it! And I also miss the morning after the sex, where everything he does is perfect and nothing he says or does can go wrong,. Granted that feeling lasts about 10 mins but still I miss that feeling the most!
At the Library
Black Tunic Thrifted
Cardigan: Thrifted
Vintage Pink Scarf from this haul
Leggins From Ross
Rose Quartz Necklace from Church Sale
Coach Flats
Avasha said she liked yesterday’s outfit better. The pink doesnt suit me according to her.
aww
NK come back sooooooon!
You look great! the outfit without the tights would have looked better. I think Pink suits you.
Me: Dec 2nd seems so far far away.. Sigh.
I love how its put together..but maybe the tights of a diff color. The pink looks good on the black tunic. Lol at the stuff you miss the most but so true:D…and ROFL at the chai..DH always fights for the last sip of chai in my glass.:)
Me: Ohh I get so pissed when he does that. Or when my cup is in the microwave and he steals it and finishes it.When I am mad at him, the first thing I do is not make chai for him
Are those animal print leggings? Nice!
Me: Yup and they are really comfy and not itchy at all. Are you jealous of how unbundled I am in the California winter.
arey baapre….yeh kya kehdiya aapne…..yahan bacche aate he padne ke liye……a.k.a. me…..hehehehe
Me: he is going to kill me when he reads this.And oye dont you have 2 kids? I know one for sure..
Gurl, You are looking fabuloussss!
Hair is also looking good today and u’r face is also looking FRESH. Am at work now, will surely check the hair cream name and get back to you on monday.
Have a greaaaaaaat weekend with the kids!
Me: Hair I washed and conditioned. Face because I got my 2.5 hours free. It was Thursday.
And yes tell me the cream name.
Awww’paaavam(mallu for poor )NK..I’m sure he’s reading your blog everyday and missing what he sees!
Me: We tried and it just didnt work. Too many distractions… on his side or mine
I think the outfit is fab. Except for the tights. They throw the whole outfit off for me because they’re a different color. I think, if you wanted to wear brown tights, you’d need to pick that color up elsewhere in the outfit, like with accessories (belt, scarf, etc) but black tights would work better.
Me: Hmmm I couldnt find the black tights. I thought the brown patterned would contrast agains the plain dress.. But yup should have tried a brown scarf/belt maybe… hmmm next time.
The dress and the cardigan looks very good. Tights a black one would have nailed the look. As I have said before looking wow day by day.
Me: Hmm… I need to hunt for patterned black tights. I love this brown one,very comfy. I edited the K and deleted the other comment, okay?
Okay. Thanks for the edit. The brown tights does look very nice and comfy. Can’t take my eyes off the cardigan. Lovely pink my favorite color. What brand is it. Looks very chic and Parisian, Like somebody in Paris would wear.
I love the pic much more if i cover the knee n below part with my hand.. yup i agree with the above comments about leggings not adding to this outfit positively.
n hey, I hv also been missing my husband
Me: Sigh about missing husbands.
Lol at the need for butt-wiping! and has the cute lil boy in the header lost his teeth:)?? When? And your hair looks damn young;)
Me: It just looks thats way..he has a while to go before the tooth fairy comes visit him.
Wear this outfit without any tights! Shud look gr8
lol.. love the way you put it. And great outfit!! Agree with Neha though, lose the tights. Hey I posted about guns in schools, I would expecially like to know what you think. Come visit!
Me: I just did
LOL! I knew you had the 8@||$ to say it.
that honestly is one of the most beautiful thing i have read…=)
Can you please throw those leggings away, already? how many people need to tell you that it doesnt work?? you have great and may I add “shiny” legs…these look like panty hose!! Now will you throw them??
As far as missing NK, for now try phone sex.. you may not get that opportunity once he gets back.
Me: Its too short to go without tights.
And I spit my chai out. 
Dude, can I just say, YOU ROCK!
I am most DEFINITELY taking you out for dinner when and if we are in Singapore at the same time!
Where is my comment ????? I commented and its not here
Me: Really. I dont know… weird.
*hug*
Hasn’t the man even seen your Gtalk status? That should say enough!
Hang in there, count down the days. You’ll make it.
Me: The man has aversion to all things online. Blog, facebook..texting..chats…everything.
this made me smile wide….:).
Dec 2nd will turn out be quite HOT *wink, (that’s my forecast for the day/night)
nice pic!
ROFL!! Okie, we covered this when we chatted I know.. but come December 2nd and at least you wont have to google you know what;-)
Hugs baby!
I like the outfit. Without tights, though
Omg..your are exactly like me!!! If he has pissed me off the previous day, no chai that morning:D.. I get up and make Chai for us in the morning and then go for a shower and come back and drink it. Sometimes if he gets up while Im in the shower drinks both our cups..So now I hide my cup in the oven. cupboard, under some cabinet..He was laughing when he saw me get the cup out of the pantry the other day!
Me: My trick is take one of the steel mixing bowl and hide the cup underneath.
oye ….ek bas hai behenji…..abhi hum still acche bacche hai…..
we just had one last year… and i guess it is handful. we both work and it is becoming tough to find a good daycare here in MN.
just came back from a heated discussion with the daycare she in….
the people are really retarded, doodh garam karneke liye bhi they have to consult state laws….
Too short?? really? is there such a thing as too short or too much cleavage? I say NO! Now dont serve ‘spit out’ chai to NK!!
Me:
Like the saying, One can never be too thin or too rich