1. If you are using a feed reader, do you use asaaan.wordpress.com or asaaan.com?
I had bought a redirect from wordpress, so if you typed in the wordpress, you will be brought to asaaan.com. But someone emailed me that their readers were not being updated. So I was wondering whether anyone else was having the same issues.
2. If your ex adds you on FB, do you a)add him/her or b) ignore him/her
I will ignore him because I know NK wouldnt like it.
3.If you spouse adds his/her ex on FB, are you okay with that?
Hmm.. I think I would be fine. NK doesnt have a FB account …
4.Do you think you and your ex can become friends?
Hmm….too much stuff happened between use so nope. Cannot be friends.
5.Do you think your spouse and his/her ex can become friends?
He claims he can. I dont know whether I will be happy with that. There is a huge reason why I have been quiet and why these questions have been asked. Its interesting, people think its my EX who contacted me(cough Guddi, cough Pera) but its not. Its NK”s ex.
Its long filmy story about how it happen, why it happened and blah blah blah. Its not something I want to share with the entire blogging world. But it happened and how I reacted took me by surprise.
I thought I would be one of those that wouldnt care but hmm apparently I am not. I dont want him being friends with his ex and thats that!
Not to worry people,things are back to normal in the asaaanhousehold. In other news, I sold the bar cart that was in MM post. And I sold it for a tidy profit. The lady that came to buy wanted to buy my other one but I refused.
Gosh these things are so complicated. I really don’t know how I would react. I can be pretty mean sometimes!
Yay! Congrats on the sale. Well done ma’am. And good to know all is well in the household.
yay on selling the bar cart
. I agree on you that you’d not like it if he was friends with his ex. I have not added guys from college who were in “love” with me then , not coz it would make S unhappy but coz I was afraid they would put buri nazar on our pics. I know it sounds like a 16th century superstition but thats the reason 
Hehehehe buri nazar.hehehehe I love it!
Whew! Thank goodness! Glad to hear you two got past this. *big hugs for you! You are a wonderful wife and a great mommy and I admire you!
these kind of reactions just cannot be predicted. they are just too spontaneous. no matter how much you think you’ll be fine with it, you can never know till it ACTUALLY happens.
Me: Thanks for sharing that.
If you understand Tamizh…you should see this movie…Sillunu oru Kadhal…very beautiful…slow but nice…good feelings!
Me: I dont understand..
Thanks for sharing your reasons for the questions !Glad that all’s fine in the Asaaan household…there will come a time when the two of you can look back at this and laugh…”remember the time you had a major fanny-wobble when I wanted to be friends with so and so…”;)
SR- One thing i noticed is that your page is lot slower to load after you moved from wordpress. Just in case you are working on the performance issues of the site.
Me: I think its my hosting company fault. I am not renewing with them when my year is up. Will sign up someplace else
PAH! You jump into your own conclusions, woman! I said “You found EX!” Didn’t mean ‘your ex’. I could imagine you beating the S*&^ outta her.. just for being alive!
That’s the story I wanted to hear!! 
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