My first born turns 11. I have been a mother for 11 yrs.. Isn’t that something? Nk and I were talking and we can remember so many first details, her first words(she spoke really well at like 9 months or something crazy like that) Her first step, I remember was before she turned 1, NK sat on one side and I the other and we called and cajoled her to walk so that we could capture it on the video camera.
When she was 2.5-3 yrs old and we were living in MA, she had to take a test for a public preschool we were applying for. The lady took her away and brought her back after 20-30 mins. (NK still talks about this event like it happened yesterday. They were testing her for English skills and some crap like that). The examiner would ask her something and Ashwina would give her reply and she wrote it down. One of the ones I can remember was, When it started raining<complete the sentence> her answer was then it stopped.. Another one was to label a pen, a marker and pencil. She knew pen and pencil but not marker since we didnt use any. She did pass that test but we chose NOT to put there or something like that. (why I am telling you this story is beyond me)
She and I share a lot of loves. The first is of course reading, the thing is that now she recommends books that I should read, I am currently waiting for her to get me the Charlie Bone series. We both are very crafty, she moreso than I am. With her origami and her intricate beading designs for which I dont have patience for.
I baked a cake for her class today..All thats was left were crumbs. She said it was really good and her classmates loved it. She went out with a friend to a indoor playground. Her friend won the school read-a-thon prize and invited Ashwina to go with her. We wanted to go out for dinner but all 3 older kids have a rehearsal that is going to end late.
She send me an email 2-3 weeks ago.
Mama, this is my birthday wish list.
1. Fablehaven By Brandon Mull
2. The Sister Grimms By Michael Buckley
3. Style Lab Jewelery Design
4.Style Lab Makeover
I looked at it and said I might get something…MIGHT..Because she has a party this year, she doesnt get to have that many presents.(We have a alternate year party rule, Last year the boys had a party , this year its the girls turns) 2-3 days later, she sends me another email
Mama,this is my revised Birthday Wish List. I added a few things.
1.Sister Grimms
2.Totally Beads
3.Style Lab Jewelery Design
4.Fablehaven
5.Cooking Mama 3
I laughed when I read it. I said what did you revise. She said its in order of importance. NK bought a beading loom set yesterday and she’s been busy with it so far. Her party is Friday afternoon. I have 23 bags finished, fabric paint bought. I have a long to-do list for tomorrow.




Happy Happy bday to Ashwina. So did you get her wish list? She is a bookworm ain’t she? and what wonderful choices for books.
You made the cake and finished 23 bags? Damn you always give me a complex and I wonder if I will vanish in shame the day I meet up with you
Happy Birthday to Ashwina. The cake looks yummy, I am sure if it had been double the size, even then it would have been completely eaten up. I am sure the party will be a hit. Have fun!
Happy Birthday Ashwina! Hope all your wishes come true
awww she is so cute
god bless her always
Happy birthday to Ashwina! I remember you’d written one of her stories once, and it was wonderful.. her reading list is impressive too! She’ll turn out to be an author, S. And do post the pictures of her beading projects, your bags etc. Love seeing them
Me: You remember her stories.. She is currently writing one out for the submission to the county fair. She won 3rd prize last year and got a $1 check…:)
Happy Birthday Ashwina! May all your wishes come true!
wow! congratulations you guys. and she is such a lovely girl. many happy birthday wishes to her.
Happy birthday Ashwina!
awwww….such a lovely post.
happy birthday, ashwina, may you have loads of fun.
hey !! happy happies Ashwina. My goodness Sraikh. another coupla years and you’ll the mother of a teenager. i dont believe it!
Me: At times, it feels like she is already one. I was talking to some one and she has a 12,14 and 18 yr, older 2 girls and 1 younger boy ..she said its gets worse..
today is my elder sisters bday too! she’s the eldest in the family. and the mad momma’s brat’s bday is today too who is also the eldest. there’s something about 05/05 and being the first born i suppose!
happy birthday to Ashwina!
Happy birthday to a lovely young lady!…hope she has a great day.
A very very happy birthday to your sweet girl and congratulations to you S, she is an absolute and delightful credit to you and all that you do everyday.
God bless her heart..She is such a sweet girl..Eldest one’s always share a special bond with the parents. The cake looks yummy? You have a link to the recipe?
Me: http://chezannies.blogspot.com/2009/06/marble-cake-recipe.html…I didnt add the alcohol in case you were wondering. and I melted Nutella and used it in the chocolate batter instead of the melting chocolate bits. I made the glaze by melting Nutella and milk and then drizzling
Did u use the double boiler method to melt nutella or the microwave? Im really paranoid about the double boiler method for some reason:(..have never ever dared to melt chocolate..except the Ganache where i put hot whipping cream over the chocolate:)
Me: Microwaving in 10 sec increments..
Happy b’day to the big girl. She is a total doll. Give her a hug for me
Happy Birthday to Ashwina! I can’t wait to see party pics – I’m sure it will be a success!
I can’t imagine juggling 4 kids and having the time to all the stuff you do. Care to share some time management tricks with me…lol
She’s precious (can’t wait to meet her)….and please wish her a Happy Birthday for us!
Happy Birthday Ashwina !!!
You are allowed to send cake to school for her class ??? How wonderful !! The rule in Cantaloupe ‘s school is NO food items in class.
Me: Yup we can send cupcakes/muffins for their birthdays.
Looks like the party planning is coming along nicely …. Cheers !!
I have to start planning Junior’s party ….
Bon anniversaire to Ashwina!
Time does indeed fly and you are lucky to have such a lovely and intelligent child.
All the best to your girl and may she have a great party!
PS : cake looked really good.
Me: I have to make another one next week..I didnt get to taste any. But I guess the crumbs are indication that they were good right. PS;;I found a NordicWare Bundt cake for 99cents..I know..
Enjoy reading your blog…(been a lurker)
Happy Birthday Ashwina!!!
Me: Waves hello
Happy birthday to Ashwina! And congratulations to you for having completed 11 years of motherhood
I love her list! And her cake! It looks good enough to grab
Waiting to hear more about her party – am sure you would have planned a lot of fun stuff for her
many more birthday wishes to Ashwina. been lurking a while. didnt want to miss this opportunity to comment. an interesting blog u have.
Oh dear! late on this. BIG hugs to Ashwina. Hope she had a wonderful day and I hope you survived the party!