I was talking to my newly married sister about this. How they have the sickening habit and despite all these years(at least for me) he hasnt changed. What am I talking about? The fact that after eating his meal, NK MOSTLY forgets to bring his plate to the sink. We have been married 13 years [...]
Posts under ‘Marriage’
Convo in Bed
Me: so how come all the heroines in the movies always, always go back to the spouse even if the spouse is a abusive, scum of the earth bastard. NK: Kaun si movies Me: Mr and Mrs Iyer, Hum dil Dey chuke sanaam, Life in metro, Rab Ne Jodi wali movie(although that technically doesnt count) [...]
Love poem but not for me.
After his India trip,NK has been reading my blog, not the posts but rather the comments. He says the comments are more interesting. He clicked on Guddi‘s blog and went to view her profile and apparently this line Jagjit Singh is like Zakhm Pe Marhamm inspired him to write a few lines. Onus is on [...]
Day 18th/Missing NK
I was speaking to NK this afternoon and he said, he was sad that I didnt seem to be missing him. That I wasnt pining for him. I told him, to grow up. I am dealing with the 4 monsters kids of ours, and I have no time to be missing him. We spoke a [...]
Day 11/ Interruping Normal Post
pati Hello Dear, I did read your blog … just the 9 days !!! I wish I could fly like Hanuman and be with you and kids. I convey my heart felt thanks to your fans who are moral and emotional support to you in such difficult times. Sraikh fans Your prayers and well wishes [...]
Blast from the Past
Both TND and CA expressed a desire to see me prior kids. I can barely recall what we did last week let alone how I looked 12 years ago but I went hunting into deep crevices of my closet, searching in the dark corners of my suitcase. The one that had travelled back and forth from Singapore [...]
First comes Love, then comes marriage.
These past few weeks, I had 2 friends send emails saying they are filing for divorce. I am saddened at how many of my friends are going through this.Friends from India, US and Singapore. Some because they found out that their spouses were cheating on them, one because of physical abuse and another’s reason is so [...]
Its not babysitting when its your own child(ren)
I am a very selfish person. I have no problems demanding my own time once a week. It might be something as fancy as a pole dancing class or as simple as a coffee at Starbucks followed by browsing at B&N. It might be 2-3 hours or it might be a 45 min walk. NK cannot [...]
Karwa Chauth Post
Reading Chandni ’s post on KC and instead of leaving a long comment on her post, I wanted to write my own. I wanted to do KC after watching DDLJ, ohh the mehendi and the new saree and the drinking of the water by spouse and the looking at the chand. All very filmy drama but [...]
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